Sabado, Oktubre 22, 2011

Abrupt Experience :)


We started out for a planned camp trip and the skies were sunny, the temperature was warm. "We" were my friends, namely Usui, Keroro, Angel, Yuchii, my little dog, and I, and we were well packed for the trip. The closer we got to the unimproved camping site we were going to, though, the more ominous dark clouds there were. Still, we'd long planned the trip, and the forecast was for good weather, so we headed on.
When we pulled into camp, it was beginning to sprinkle. The ground was also wet enough it was clear that it had been raining on and off for some time. We weren't about to turn around and go home, so priorities were quickly set. Me and Usui quickly set up the tent, and my other friends were transferred from the car to the tent. By that time, it was pouring rain. However, the next priority was to build a campfire. We needed heat, and the rain wasn't showing any sign of slowing down. There was a camp pit, but it needed to be dug out and set up more soundly. The camp pit took about a half hour, and by then, I was drenched and my coat was sopping wet. I was just thankful that everyone else was still in the tent where it was dry.
However, though the pit was built, I had to build a fire. It can be done in a rainstorm, though it is far from ideal conditions. I started by pulling bark off of dead trees and laying the bark down as a base, wettest side down. Then small dead twigs were collected off trees. These were at least partly dry. These were put over an easy fire starter, which was lit. Larger pieces of wood were put on the fire as it grew, and in only another half hour, a good fire was going, though it was steaming. Stoking the fire, and with an armful of wood, I headed for the tent. I wanted the wood to stay as dry as possible, but I was shivering cold. Keroro met me in the tent with a towel, and I was able to strip off the wet coat and start drying off. Not more than ten minutes later, the rain eased up to mere sprinkles again. With my friends in the tent, we rushed to set up camp, and managed to do it in record time. We managed to get the camp set up and to get back in the tent before the heavy rain returned. Finally, I was able to change into dry clothing while the beds were made.
Through the afternoon, evening, and night, the fire was kept going. Part of this was thanks to a large pitchy piece of wood we found during a lull in the storm. Through most of the night, the sound of the hard falling rain against the tent was almost deafening. I was seriously thinking by around midnight, of packing up and going home the following day. Some time after that, I fell asleep.
When I got up in the early morning, I could scarcely believe the change. The fire was still burning, and the air was crisp, clear, and fresh. The sun wasn't quite up yet, but the skies had not a single sign of a cloud. By the time the sun was hitting the ground, I was sitting, sipping a cup of hot coffee, and watching the fish jumping in the little lake we were near.
The day ended up getting warm, then hot. I caught some fish, we got the wet clothing and coat dry, and we ended up swimming to escape the heat. Best of all, very few people showed up that weekend, though it was a three day weekend, probably because of the storm. We all ended up having a blast, and had the place mostly to ourselves.
If lessons can be learned from this experience, they are to set priorities, get them done, but to never give up as much as you might consider it.

An inspirational Story


Our greatest weakness lies in giving up.
The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.

- Thomas Edison


I have seen this video before during my high school life yet it makes my eyes to be teary again. For him, it is not really infeasible to face many obstacles in life. I am intrinsically inspired by him. Though he doesn’t have hands and feet that make his life easier but he doesn’t mind it at all. Instead, he fights for whatever problems may come because disability is not a hindrance for him to just stop there and rely on to others.
Do you think of giving up for what you’re fighting for right now?
I firmly say that you don’t have to! There are many possible options in life to elucidate those problems. We can never avoid of failing in some point but it’s not a reason for us to become abase and after feeling that way then something will come up in our mind to already give up. Yes! I am also one of those people who easily give up but after seeing this video, I am again induced by him. I already experienced many difficult situations in life and most of it is a heartbroken one. For instance, I lost a person who was very special to me because I failed to take care of her but then it’s not the reason for me to make a period in there.
However, this is life! Even if I fall so many times but I have just to stand up again and continue whatever I’ve started. For me, there is no giving up. Yea! My life would maybe 180 degrees right now but I think I have to make my life colorful and enjoy every situations and problems I have. :)
How can I be an inspiration to others?
Well, for me to stimulate others is just by a way of being me. I am just a simple person who’s prone to predicaments but appreciates any of it. You know what’s my secret in facing those challenges in life?
Be GOD your best friend and sure everything will be easy and alright. If you have HIM then you will also feel the same way as me. I’m totally at ease. :)))


Biyernes, Oktubre 21, 2011

Writing Definition

Discipline

“Discipline is the way in which good behavior is the wanted output. Discipline is the way of managing or training someone or something to be well behaved.”

Furthermore, discipline is everything you put into a person that influences how they turn out and it is what you do to encourage good behavior but everyone has a different way to discipline especially a child. Well before a person can discipline others, he/she must discipline his/her self first.

Accountability

“Accountability is the concept in ethics and governance with several meanings. It is often used synonymously with such concepts as responsibility, answerability, blameworthiness, liability, and other terms associated with the expectation of account-giving. As an aspect of governance, it has been central to discussions related to problems in the public sector, nonprofit and private (corporate) worlds. In leadership roles, accountability is the acknowledgment and assumption of responsibility for actions, products, decisions, and policies including the administration, governance, and implementation within the scope of the role or employment position and encompassing the obligation to report, explain and be answerable for resulting consequences.”


Moreover, accountability is taking responsibility for your words and actions. It means saying what you mean, meaning what you say, and doing what you say you're going to do. While the concept is simple, developing the discipline and the skills may not be. By losing touch with what is truly important, and judging yourself and your work by what others say, you can easily lose your vision, and consequently your way. To maintain personal and professional accountability, follow a few simple guidelines.
Don't lie to yourself. Take a daily look at the reality of your situation and use truth as a motivator. Not only is a lie hard to remember, but even tiny untruths build on each other and can become your agent of destruction. 

Maturity

“Maturity is a psychological term used to indicate how a person responds to the circumstances or environment in an appropriate manner. This response is generally learned rather than instinctive, and is not determined by one's age. Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act appropriately, according to the situation and the culture of the society one lives in.”


In addition, maturity is the stage of full-grown development. It is usually measured in terms of age and physique. However, maturity for human beings must reflect not only on the biological concept of the word but also on the ability of an individual to take responsibility with one’s actions. This responsibility comes with wisdom, awareness of conduct and the capacity to anticipate the consequences of his decisions in life.
Wisdom distinguishes a mature man from what is right or wrong. In this way, he recognizes the truth from a lie and is capable of weighing what is righteous not only for one’s sake but also for the benefit of the rest.









                                          


My Hero.. My Best Friend =)


My HERO? 
Jessa Mae Calamba is her name.

    I never expect to meet this very special person. I never thought it’s the beginning of building a friendship.. It’s just an ordinary day, I thought-
        As time goes by knowing each other makes me feel good. She makes me feel safe as she thought me how to stand when I fall and not to be coward from the catastrophe. Once, I was rejected by someone whom I learned to love and I was so afraid to be rejected by her also but then, she never makes me feel that way. I was welcomed and cared by her! As she come along with me in one road I will never be afraid again and never be alone for I know she’ll stay and never say goodbye. Whenever I have problems, she’s always there to help. She comforts me whenever I’m sad. She never failed to make me smile and I guess she’s the kind of person who never forgets to smile though she’s having problems sometimes. However, she always encourages me in different ways. I’m so thankful to have this person.
        She’s a hero who saved me from sadness and helped me know again what happiness is. =) She’s not only my hero but she’s a friend.. that I can call my REAL Best friend =)

# 4 A dream I could never forget

Do the dead communicate with the living through dreams?

I never believed the dead could communicate with the living for most of my life and that was because I had never lost a loved one in death. As the years passed though and I lost my very closest friend, and for a long time I never dreamed of him and had nothing to happen to make me believe he would communicate with me. From the day of his death, I wondered was he happy in the place he was going to and it bear on my mind a lot. He was taken away from this earth at the age of sixteen years and I felt he was cheated in life. Many times I asked, "Why did he have to leave us so soon in life?"
Many years had passed and one night out of the blue, I had this dream about him. It was as real as if we were together for a nice cordial visit. We were both elated to be with each other and we told each other how much we loved to be together. He looked just as though he had in real life. He was happy and conversed with all who were there as though he had never gone away from this earth. After many hours of enjoying ourselves, he said it was time for him to go and I immediately got up and asked him why he had to leave? He looked me in the eyes, and said, "yuchii, I'm so happy where I am today...I have "no" troubles and I'm no longer tired and exhausted all the time like I used to be and I'm happier than I've ever been."
I couldn't believe what I was hearing him saying, and I said to him, "You don't want to come back home and be with us...we all miss you and our lives is missing someone special." He looked at me and smiled, and said, "No, I'm happy where I am and I don't want to return to this earth." In an instant, he was gone. It was like in a snap of a finger. I felt a loss but I felt a freedom from constantly thinking about why he was taken from us at such a young life?
To this day, I honestly believe he came to me to allow me to rest and not to fret my entire life about him having to leave this earth so young. I don't worry anymore about him and I know he is in a better place because he told me so. I don't question why he was taken from us anymore, I believe it was the plan God had for him in his life. When I think of him today, I feel a peace in the core of my soul and I can see the smile on his face and him repeating, "No, I'm happy where I am and I don't want to return to this earth." Now, people might say this was just a coincidence that I dreamed this but I know it was a message from him to me to give me peace.





# 3 I stop to say "THANK YOU" to my 'FAMILY'



We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. =)
  I think people value family these days by using words to tell others how they feel. They do not name, call or use bad language. They do not hurt others physically or emotionally and they do not hurt each other's property or their own. They work to get out of a problem and not to stay in it. Especially, they take care of each other.
  Actually, I do tell my family all the time that I love them. I'm lucky that I have my family with me all the time and we often do things together. I'm very close with both my mom and dad and with my four brothers. We always seem to do things for each other and repaying one another back. Rarely do we fight and when we do, we end up find one or two days later and say were sorry. I always respect them and they are a part of my life which I am so afraid to lost. 
My mom and dad never failed to discipline me and they were always at my back to support me. Especially, they never failed to take care of me though at times I make them feel disappointed but they do not mind it at all but it’s a reason for them to do their part as my parents and that's what I like most from them.
However, 10 years from now, I am responsible to pay them back. At that time, I expect to be a matured one. As they never failed to do their part as my parents, I will take care of them hundred times of what they did. I will never leave them behind even when they are old because I value them more than my life. =)
  Actually, I always rely on them and it's so hard for me now because they are not here. I miss them so much. So many times, my mom and dad always hear me saying 'thank you'. I can't explain how thankful I am to them and I will never be tired of saying..
"THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU Mama and Papi". I hope you are all okay there. I miss you a lot.